Two days ago my husband took baby boy to his monthly checkup. I’m usually the one who takes him and I really love his pediatrician. She is a new mom herself and so her advice resonates on a more real level. We chat as if we are two friends having coffee and talking about our kids. But I couldn’t go this last time because I had to work. So when my husband came home and told me his pediatrician needed to talk to me about a few things I was doing, I knew I was in trouble. And I knew what she was going to tell me. But I’m not one to shy away from criticism so I quickly picked up the phone and called her answering service. She called me soon after and after a moment of chit chat she told me what I didn’t want to hear but know is the truth: it’s time to put the baby in his own bed and his own room. Just hearing those words made my heart sink. But I know she’s right. My best friend, who is also a pediatrician, has lectured me on this in the past but that was before he was six months old and I thought I still had time.
Now though, I know that if I sleep train him he will soon sleep through the night without waking up and that by keeping him next to me as a snuggle bunny, I was only being selfish. I promised that I would try to at least put him in his pack ‘n play in my room. The idea of putting him in his own room, all alone, is just unbearable at the moment. And what I don’t want to do is go through reading another sleep training book. So if you would, I beg of you to give me advice. How did you sleep train your baby? How long did it take? And was it worth it? And please, please don’t tell me I have to let him cry.
One thing you should know about me is, growing up, I was always the teacher’s pet. I don’t like when the teacher is disappointed in me. So I have to get this assignment right. But unlike grade school, I don’t have a clear text book on how to ace this exam. I hope that you can help.